Years before I had my stillbirth with Ayelet, I went through sexual trauma. This trauma took over my life primarily through fear. Thanks to successful therapy sessions (which were at times also scary. And challenging.
Stillbirth is a loss. We go through a real loss, even if society doesn't always acknowledge our loss, as society never saw our baby. But we felt our babies grow and move inside us, totally
Prof. Jacob Raz is a well-known author, speaker, and teacher of Buddhism. He wrote a book (in Hebrew), in which I found this, which brought me to tears. The original text talks about a father